Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose. Tennessee Williams
A single rose can be my garden… a single friend, my world. Leo Buscaglia
A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are.
Short version: 1. Define Who Should Be Your Perfect Friend 2. Practice Visualization 3. Get Rid of Your Limiting Beliefs & Practice Affirmations 4. Take Action & Help Your Friend Find You 5. Trust the Universe and Let Go of the Outcome If you want to learn more, keep reading.
Do you feel sometimes that you’re lonely? Does it seem to you sometimes that you have no trusted friend you could talk to and confide in?
Or maybe you think that all your friendships are very superficial and although you seem to have friends they are not “real” friends?
It’s not easy nowadays to find real, trusted friends. Most people are self-centered and they will pretend that they’re your friends as long as they need you for their own ends.
Of course true friendships happen sometimes and they can last throughout our lives, but what if you have doubts that you will ever find such a bosom friend?
Will manifesting help you? Even if you’re not 100% sure it doesn’t hurt to try!
OK, let’s see what you need to do to start manifesting a specific person and friendships you deserve.
First try to define who should be your perfect friend. Are you looking for a man or a woman? Should he/she be funny and outgoing or rather serious and quiet? What would you like to do with your friend? If you like biking then your friend should like biking as well. If you like hiking then probably they should like it too. What values and morals should they embody? Think also about the traits that you don’t want your friend to have such as being late all the time or messiness. Remember that according to the law of attraction like attracts like. So if you want to find a friend with certain character traits you should also represent the same traits. If you want to find a person who is calm, kind and always positive then you should also work on being calm, kind and positive. How do you want to attract somebody who is positive if you’re negative most of the time? It’s against the rules of the law of attraction.
Practice visualization. It can be a powerful exercise but it needs to be done in the right way. Whenever you visualize your friend and the things you do together you need to bring emotions and sensations into the experience. Try to feel happiness and pleasure. The more positive feelings you experience the more effective your manifestation will be. In your mind’s eye see what you’re doing together, what you’re talking about, how your friend is behaving, what is their approach to you. Visualize how your relationship with each other will improve your life. If now you’re sad and depressed then maybe you will start to feel joyful and happy. If now you’re sitting at home all the time, then maybe your friend will encourage you to go out more often and have fun. Remember that when you’re visualizing you need to focus on what you want instead of on what you don’t want because what you focus on expands.
Get rid of your limiting beliefs and practice affirmations. If for some reason you have doubts and you think that you will probably never find a great friend then you need to get rid of these limiting beliefs as soon as possible. It happens sometimes that we want something, we’re determined to get it, but our subconscious mind is sabotaging our efforts. You may want to manifest a great friendship with someone but on the other hand you may also think, based on your past experiences, that people are not trustworthy, that friends will leave you when they don’t need you any more or that they just want to take advantage of you. While it all can be true, when you’re trying to manifest friends and friendships you deserve you cannot think this way. Affirmations can help you alter subconscious thoughts. Repeating positive phrases every day gives them power, you may finally start to believe that they are true and begin to act in a way that will make the affirmations you say a reality. Here are a few affirmations that you may start to repeat every day. But you don’t have to limit yourself to these particular affirmations. Create your own! And then keep repeating them until they become a part of your subconscious mind.
|Limiting beliefs||Positive affirmations|
|I’m very bad at making friends.||I make friends easily.|
|I don’t believe in true friendships.||I cherish my friendships and they are beautiful.|
|People only want to take advantage of you.||People are good and caring. I meet such people often.|
|I will never find a true friend.||Very soon I will find someone who will become my best friend.|
I’m always very excited to meet new friends. My circle of friends is growing every day. I have no problems with attracting loyal and kind people into my life. I easily connect with others. People want to be friends with me. I attract friends who accept me as I am.
Take action and help your friend find you. You have to make an effort to meet new people. Manifesting is not only about wishing something and thinking about it. It’s also about taking an inspired action. You want to meet somebody? Then you need to get out of your home and go somewhere where you believe you can meet the person that you’re dreaming about. Remember though that you should look in the right places. If you want your friend to be a quiet, non-drinking person then you shouldn’t look for him/her in a pub. Of course it doesn’t mean that you can’t find the right person in the pub, but the likelihood is smaller. You know what I mean.
Trust the universe and let go of the outcome. Don’t be obsessed with the result of your manifestation, stop thinking about how long it will take and whether it will actually work or not. You don’t have to think about the specific person you want to manifest all the time. Don’t worry about all this. If you worry it means that you don’t trust the universe, you don’t believe that the universe will take care of your desire and will make your manifestation a reality. Be patient and trust that the universe is taking care of you. Don’t be attached to a specific outcome, it may only block your manifestation. Trust the process!
It’s possible to manifest a specific person you’re thinking about. I’m not saying it will happen instantly. Most probably not, but who knows – the universe may surprise you and the law of attraction has no limits, so anything’s possible.
Stick to the steps that have been described in this article, be patient and trust that the universe will guide you to your new best friend.
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